So I’m sure you’re looking at this right now and wondering why is she parading around in a monokini, wrap skirt and stilettos…what’s the purpose?
Photo Cred: LaTia Springer
Monokini: Lulus.com (personal swimsuit)
Tie Dye Assymetric Skirt: Necessary Clothing ($24.99)
Heels: Steve Madden (personal)
Metallic Tattoos: Flash Tattoos or Etsy (average 10-12 a page)
Well….if you’re new to the blog, here’s why:
1. I’m a fashion addict and I love the ability to express myself (why not this life is too short!!!)
2. I’m also a carnival fanatic and Miami carnival is t-minus 24 days away and my itinerary is jam-packed of carnival, concerts, feting, cruising, a little bit of boozing and somehow mixing paint, powder and water all into one extra long weekend that is one of the biggest US-based carnivals in the country.
3. Fashion and the above elements are believed not to co-exist and I am here to put a stop to that senseless notion. You can look FABULOUS and FETE to your heart’s content and that’s where the term “fete-a-quete” was birthed. (LOL)
Photo Cred: LaTia Springer
Photo Cred: LaTia Springer
Photo Cred: LaTia Springer
In the words of Beenie Man, “lets go to di beach”…..
Ditched my heels to chill by the pool….
In my history of pool parties, wet fetes; I always got that nagging creeping feeling that my outfit that I spent hours preparing was going to lose it’s fabulosity as soon as the moisture factor kicked in. I hated “the wet zone” and carefully avoided being pushed into a pool by friends or too-hype partygoers. Often a time, I would imagine a Carrie reincarnated in my petite frame raining down all hell on those “wet fetters” that seemed to have no care in the world if a drop of water dare disturb their party vibes. So hey, it was time to make a decision…either stay planted in the dry zone looking “pretty ugly” or find a way to mix the elements of fashion and the glorious euphoria of being drenched in a “bess fete”.
Here go my tips to enjoy a fashionably wet fete:
Poolside accessories : Flash tats & manicured nails
Dress accordingly.
-If the flyer says wet, paint or powder, prepare yourself to get “pretty messy”. In this case, opt for the beachy wrap skirt or denim shorts paired with a monokini or bikini that can double as a cute crop top.
-If you are going to wear heels, prepare to take them off because you will slip and slide like there’s no tomorrow unless you intend to plant yourself in one position all day/night; do yourself a favor and ditch the stilettos. Wedges are always a good option, but flats or sandals are the BEST. Or go barefoot…I mean it is an appropriate setting to do so.
Hair, less is more.
-Simple is best especially if you’re going to get wet. Braids are always an easy option; a wet and wavy weave can be your BFF. Sunglasses or hair clips can keep that coif in check.
Photo Cred: LaTia Springer
Accessorize.
-Do not wear your expensive or valuable jewelry; chances are you could possibly lose them. A good alternative are flash tattoos (check out my post about this product here: http://bahamianista.blogspot.com/2014/08/fete-wear-flash-tattoos.html ). They come in cute designs and are easy to apply anywhere on the body.
-A sun hat or a pair of shades are your best friend. They keep you looking and feeling cool while potentially foreign objects are flying nearby your face and eyes.
-A cute tote to store all the above and more for touch ups or just “you know” a towel to start the drying off process.
Photo Cred: LaTia Springer
Most importantly, have fun.
If you get wet, you will dry off. Clothes and looking perfect are not the “end-all” of life, savor the good times and get your fill of fun while you can. Until next time, I hope I see you at a wet-fete near me.
Splish-splash,
Bahamianista
